Please read this and help me, I know its long but I promise to choose best answer?

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Jam Jar

Im 21 and im cracking up, everyone constantly pushes me around and tells me what to do, I moved in with my brother last September for college, I was paying my share of rent, never missed my share of the bills, and was never late in giving money or ever borrowed, I got an apartment with my brother and his girlfriend and it was the worst year of my life, they did nothing but push me around, give out to me, call me names and put me down. My brother even told me that I was in HIS apartment and I had to do what he says. Even though I was paying my fair share of rent and bills and had payed my deposit. I would go home at weekends and when I came back I would notice things moved or missing from my room, my brothers girlfriend would lend out my clothes to her friends when I wasn't there, even though I told them not to go into my room. That is my private space, I cant stand other people in my room especially when im not there and especially when there touching my things and they both knew this but still brought people into my room and even let them borrow my things, I eventually got a lock for my door, they gave out to me for locking my door and even tired to unlock it using keys off other rooms in the apartment. If I didn't do what they said like wash a cup when they said to wash it, or move something belonging to me the second they said to move it they would shout at me, call me names and my brother would even throw hard objects at me. They'd keep me all night with load music or computer games and if I asked them to lower the noise they would tell me to fuck off or shut up.They would smoke all my cigarettes, even steal them, and if they asked me for one and I said no because I didn't have many left (an being a student in Ireland were a pack of smokes costs 8.50) I couldn't afford to hand them out cigarettes when not only were they getting more money than me but they had packs and packs of tobacco. If I wouldn't give them one my brother would call me names and threaten me. They would eat all of my food, so it got to stage where I had to live on canned food which I hid in my room. They hid all the knifes forks and spoons in there bedroom, and took all the pots because I didn't wash them when they told me to. They would leave dirty dishes lying on the counter for weeks and that wasn't a problem. But if I didn't wash a pot after I had used it with in the day my brother would scream at me. So I ended up living on yogurt and other things that didn't need to be cooked because I had no pots. When I tried to stand up for my self I would get shouted and screamed at, things thrown at me, called names and my brother even made up lies about me to people from my college course. I ended up spending the entire year miserable and depressed in my room.
My ex dumped me 3 months ago, we were together for 4 years, he used to hit me, call me names, put me down and say things deliberately to hurt me, he lied all the time and his friends were also horrible to me and put me down, When ever I tried to stand up for my self he would get angry and tell me to fuck off or shut up or tell me I deserved it. I was always the one who was wrong.
I was bullied all through primary and secondary school by students and teachers, I was even bullied by kids that didn't even go to my school. My friends only really talk to me when they want something or are just bored with nothing else better to do, most of them never invite me anywhere and if I ask them to do anything I get crappy excuses. One of my friends who I talk to all the time on the phone or facebook I haven't seen in 2 years because if I ever ask her to anything she always has some excuse. If I ever have a problem or am going through a hard time, they don't want to know. Hardly any one has asked me how I am since my ex dumped me, apart from my parents and one or two girls from college.
Im living back at home now with my parents for the summer and my mam is constantly giving out to me about my messy room and stupid things like accidentally forgetting to put something back into the press but im just having a really hard time concentrating on anything because I recently found out my ex is moving to canada soon I still love him and I miss him so much, I asked my friends to help me get through this and I haven't heard from most of them since, and the ones I have talked to don't want to know about how im feeling. They don't care. And im feeling really alone and miserable right now.
My question is why do people constantly use me, walk all over me, hurt me and bully me? I try to stand up for my self but it only makes matters worse. Am I really that much of a bad person that everybody hates me so much that they treat me like this and don't care when im upset? Whats wrong with me?

Im really sorry for the lenght I just have nobody to talk to and id really like some advice.
Thank you.

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well maybe its cuz they think they r better than u. maybe they r like thinking that ur sooo dumb u cant do anything even though ur not. im sorry i hve no idea on how to handle this but ur condition sounds tough, even tougher than mine which is hard to beat! so email me at:
alice_bantam@yahoo.ca
we can be friends and i can help u get through these problems. u can email me anytime and tell me anything! however i cant meet face to face with u but we can be e-pals. GOOD LUCK!!!

I want to move to london for one month from the u.s?

Jessica

I am 20 years old and my boyfrined is 22years old. We met in high school about 4 years ago on a trip to england ireland and whales. We had some fun on this trip but we only got to stay in london for two days. I feel like we didn't do and see enough and so I figured we should go for a week or two and stay at a hotel but I added it up and that would be way two much money. So then I though why don't we rent a place for a month. I know that is a lot of money too but! We are going to start saving for the next two years. Also my boyfriend and I had been together for 4years almost!

We will save for the next two years! That should be enough for everything in the long run we would have a good time and two years should have enough money by then.
I figure if something were to happen and we break up I would go alone and or I would take my sister who is two years younger then me and she is a good kid.

So what angnice should I be book through? Is there anything I need to know. I know a pound is double american money and I know its a lot of money for a plane like I said before I went there before.
How much would a one bedroom one bathroom flat be?
Any advice on how to save moeny there besides not going?
Anything you guys can tell me would be nice! Thank you!
Okay there is no need to be rude. I have spelling problems a lot of them there is no need to be rude about it.

Anyway I have been to england before but that was a while ago I'm not sure how much changed most likely not much. On top of that I have never been to a place for such a long period of time.

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I think this is a great idea. So many people try to see all of London in a few days and leave with dreams unfulfilled. A month gives you both a chance to enjoy things at a pace that lets you breathe!

You *can* find places for short-term lets, even for only a month. Your best bet will be to start with airbnb.com. This is a site for *anyone* to advertise places they have to offer for rent to visitors. Some are only offering a bedroom in their house; others have studio flats or even larger places which you can rent for longer.
I skimmed through the first few pages of the London UK listings and this is the sort of thing I think would work brilliantly for you and your boyfriend. There are lots of other flats on offer but this was the first I spotted that was a self-contained apartment, offered at a good price, in a decent district and not way out of town. https://www.airbnb.co.uk/rooms/279342

It's in a nice safe district, Belsize Park, which is in public transport zone 2 (a short hop by tube to all the heart-of-London attractions). It's got a bunch of nice cafes and a couple of good pubs (for more of either you can stroll up the hill to Hampstead). You're also walking distance from one of London's most fun districts to visit - Camden Town (look up 'Camden Lock' for more info.) =)

There will be lots more good listings but as you're not planning to book right now, it makes more sense for you to look through for yourself. That way you'll not only find something that's right for you; you'll also get a feel for what's on offer. Prices on airbnb vary hugely - some people are asking very silly money!

As for other things you need to know...
Well, for a month, you'll need to budget for food - another reason why being near Camden's a good thing; there are big supermarkets and cheap fruit and veg market stalls there so you can cook at the flat and save money on eating out. So wherever you decide to stay, find out first about its local area. A real advantage to staying in zone 2 rather than right in the touristy heart of London is that you'll be shopping where ordinary locals shop (and paying ordinary local prices - don't get me wrong; they're still not cheap!)

You'll need to budget for insurance. Don't risk travelling without it. Among other things, it will cover cancellation if you or a close family member falls ill and you can't travel; it will cover you against loss or theft, but also fo medical care. Our NHS (National Health Service) is very good and even overseas visitors get free emergency medical treatment, but anything beyond tthat you'd have to pay for. It's a relatively small cost to save the possibility of huge bills, worry and inconvenience.

Get a detailed guidebook to London: preferably more than one (they all have their little biases!) Lonely Planet is a good starting point; Time Out (which also publishes a weekly 'what's on' magazine and runs a parallel website) is excellent.
Use the guidebooks to find out more about London's many different districts as well as to scope out ideas for places you want to see. Then you can post back here with more specific questions as your plans start to take shape.

Saving money. Come between late spring and early autumn. Our weather is notoriously fickle but is usually better behaved then than in winter. Plus you have much longer hours of daylight. In midwinter, sunrise is around 8am and sunset just after 4pm. In midsummer, sunrise is well before 5am and sunset after 9pm. It makes the most of your precious time here, and it's nice not to have to live in warm gloves, hats, scarves and coats!
Most of our major museums and art galleries are free to visit. Take picnics and enjoy the great Royal Parks. There are lots of festivals, concerts etc that cost little or nothing (again, Time Out is your friend!) Eating out at lunchtime is almost always cheaper than dinner. Nearer the time, start checking the UK-based website http://www.moneysavingexpert.com/ for discounts on shopping, attractions, days out etc.

Have fun planning - but let your ideas change; don't get fixed on doing and seeing a particular list of things. Enjoy!

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