Thursday, January 17, 2013

In BC Canada, How does a father gain full custody of his two children in a very confusing situation?

Q. How does a father of two children in BC canada gain custody of his two children (5&7) while he lives in Alberta? He has Joint custody now, seeking full. The mother has only had the children for one year by her self, the children lived in a different city 5 hours away with their grandparents before. She has one child since with a man who currently lives in New Zealand, and is pregnant with his second. He is moving back to live with the ex, and her (almost 4) kids. My children do not know this man and they live in a small 3 bedroom townhouse. They have said that they don't want him to live with them. I live in a large house in Alberta with a well paying stable job. I am to be married next summer, in a 4 year long loving relationship. My fiance loves my children as well. While the children stay with us in the summer they are not homesick, and have a great time. Court ordered visitations are extremely hard to orginize with constant fighting with the ex up until the visit. Whats my chances?

A. Think about your kids and what you would be putting them through if you decide to take them back to court, it will cause an enormous fight and i am positive they love thier mother and the two new siblings they have, you could be fighting for years, and your children do not need that. They are almost to the age where they can decide for themselves who they want to live with. Good luck.


Help me!! I dont understand with this travel package offered. How much is the total for the hotel payment?!?
Q. Me and family wanted to travel to Auckland. 4Adult and 2Child.
We prefer to stay in just a room, and kids would be ok without bed.

here is the link http://www.holidaytours.com.my/4d3n-new-zealand-citipac/

A. The website is offering packages which include hotel, breakfast, airport transfers and one of the tours listed. As you have four adults you will have to book two packages (two hotel rooms). So your cost will be RM 4,828 (4 x 1028 plus 2 x 358) for a three star hotel and RM 5,508 for the four star hotel (using the same formula). This consists of two twin rooms with two adults and a child in each (or I suppose you could sort out your own configuration when you arrive).

The reason you have to have two bedrooms is that it is highly unlikely that any Auckland hotel will be permitted to allow six people in one room unless it is a very expensive suite. The only way you will get six people into one room at a reasonable cost is to find yourself a motel that offers family rooms.

The packages are actually quite expensive. At RM2.5 to NZ$1, a three star package is going to cost you NZ$1930 for three nights/four days. If you book the trip yourself directly on the internet, you can get a family room in a decent motel for around $200/$300 per night; airport transfers would cost you around NZ$150; and the included tour no more than NZ$150 for your group. That's a total of around NZ$900 to NZ$1200 all in cost. There's the added benefit that a motel has a kitchen so that you will be able to make meals for you and the children.


Whats the movie name?Takes place NewZeland,Biker type parents,drink alot,Uncle rapes...?
Q. ...daughter,she hangs herself fromtree
Around 1995 New Zeland, sound Australian when they talk,they drink alot of 40oz. bottles of beer. She wrights a note before she kills herself telling her Dad about everything. He reads it in a bar where him and the Uncle are drinking the Dad breaks a bottle and stabs the Uncle and there a crazy fight/killing. The Dads a big guy!

A. Excellent movie, violent though.

Once Were Warriors (1994)

Runtime: 1 hr 42 mins
Genre: Dramas
Synopsis: One woman tries to keep her family together despite her violent, alcoholic husband. Based on the novel by Alan Duff. Made in New Zealand. For Jake and Beth Heke, life in their suburban ghetto... One woman tries to keep her family together despite her violent, alcoholic husband. Based on the novel by Alan Duff. Made in New Zealand. For Jake and Beth Heke, life in their suburban ghetto is going from bad to worse. Jake's just lost his job, their delinquent teenage son Boogie has to appear in court and they can't make ends meet with five growing kids. Late that night, they host another one of Jake's raunchy drinking parties while the children lie awake in their bedroom. When their oldest son asks for money, which Beth discovers Jake has gambled away, it ignites a vicious argument that Jake solves by giving Beth one of his brutal beatings. The tide of violence continues to ebb and flow in the Heke household until a terrible tragedy makes them confront the dysfunctional state of their family.
Starring: Rena Owen, Temuera Morrison, Mamaengaroa Kerr-Bell, Cliff Curtis

Director: Lee Tamahori


Hosting an exchange student-experienced hosts only pls.?
Q. We picked a student from their list and they sound really excited to have us host.
They want to come see our home and do an interview...what are they looking for in this interview? What are they wanting to see in our home-a spotless place, a comfortable place, etc?

A. We have hosted three international (high school age) students over the years and had a great time doing it. From what we have experienced, there are several purposes to the in-home interview. First, to verify the information the host provided. If you were honest (your 6-bedroom mini-mansion isn't really a trailer on concrete blocks; you have suitable sleeping accomodations avaialable for the student -- single bedroom or shared same-sex bedroom; you are not a hippie commune, etc) that part shouldn't be a problem. Second, health and safety of the student. You don't need to be spotless (and if you have other kids as we do, that would be impossible), but a pig sty or a bad neighborhood, unemployed adults (not counting the homemaker) living in the home, stuff like that will lose you points. Also, if you have guns, make sure they are secured and not in view. Same with booze. If you have smokers, banish them outside and air out the house for a few days before the visit. Make sure everybody is sober where the interviewers get there. I won't go into drugs -- you know already. Unless you are on a farm, animals should be limited to a few pets (dogs, cats, goldfish,etc; no venemous snakes or pet alligators). Third, to make sure the student is getting the experience s/he signed up for. The student is not there to be a maid, babysitter, pool boy, etc. (But you are not their servants, either; no foul for keeping them within the same house rules (chores, curfew, tv time, allowed house guests, etc) as followed by your own kids. Plus points if you have children the same age as the student who will be going to school with them. Last, to make certain you understand the obligations on both sides.

So, comfortable, not spotless. A "typical" American middle-class home: urban, suburban or rural is fine.

As I said, we have hosted three -- "sons" from Germany and New Zealand and a "daughter" from France. They spent part of the time being just another member of the family, part doing things with other members of their international student group in the area, and part with the friends they made here. It was a kick seeing their take on America. Our German student was concerned by all the US flags he saw on houses and buildings (and this was pre-9/11). He said "the last time WE did that, we got in big trouble" -- meaning the Nazis. He fell in love with TexMex food. Our New Zealander joined the school debate team. His accented English (and deliberate use of Kiwi slang) in debates was hilarious. Our French student waas amazed by our long, warm, uncrowded coastal beaches. She also nearly took over the European History class with her (left-leaning) knowledge.

A word of caution; sometimes for some reason it just doesn't work out. No biggie. Our younger daughter went to France and was placed in a chateau in Paris. But -- the parents thought she should do everything their daughter did. Ballet, piano classes, yuck. Also, they were overly-formal. She was unhappy, called her contact number, and was shifted to a family about 20 miles outside the city where things were looser. She loved it and we have since hosted her French family here.

Enjoy.





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