How do teens manage to get away with having sex?
shaunabee1
You here of teens having sex all the time, but how?? I know like 17+ they've got cars and thats where they do it, but still teens as young as 13 have sex now-a-days. I know people who aren't allowed to have sleepovers with the opposite sex, and aren't aloud in their room with the opposite sex and who can't drive, yet they still manage to do it. HOW??
this question has been bothering me for a while now and i figured the internet will have the answer.
Answer
Your entry: "I know people who aren't allowed to have sleepovers with the opposite sex"
My response: wrong.
Kids have sex. When they get the urge they'll do it. Telling them not to won't work. We're doing abstinence-only sex education in schools so kids aren't learning how to use contraception, and most of the kids realize that adults are hypocrites who had sex at their ages then try to argue they shouldn't. So what we're ending up with is horrible rates of Sexually Transmitted Diseases including HIV among teenagers and teen pregnancy.
5,000 years of history tells us that abstinence-only sex "education" is worthless and does not work, but that is ignored because unlike me, too many parents have their heads in the clouds or buried in the sand and think not talking about it means the issue will go away.
I nearly busted a gut when I heard that the two girls at a high school who won the award for best essay on telling other kids why not to have sex, were both pregnant!
I almost swallowed my tongue when I heard kids young as 11 are having sex.
Well, open minded parents who understand they're titlting at windmills by trying to fight 5,000 years of history will realize that it's far better if your 13, 14, or 15-year-old daughter has sex with her close boyfriend, you make sure they're using contraception and you let them use her bedroom. The kids are having fun, they're not getting exposed to STDs since they're monogamous, you pound it into her head that she must not get pregnant and she won't, and you can keep an eye on them.
When it's a boy around that age his parents are usually less concerned if he has sex because he can't get pregnant.
I discuss this a lot here with boys (and girls) at 12, 13 and 14 to tell them why I don't think it's a good idea for a girl under 15 to have sex, mainly because she's vulnerable and if he's not careful he could injure her.
I don't hide my head in the sand and think kids aren't having sex. They're doing so and if it's controlled, they don't risk pregnancy or disease, and maybe they learn something about relationships with other people.
Okay, for the ones that their parents don't allow it, there are several options. Maybe the girl's parents won't allow it but his will. Or her parents are cool with it when his are uptight. Sometimes the parents don't like it but the kid knows enough to blackmail the parents that they can't object if he or she brings someone home. (You don't stop me from having sex with by boyfriend in my room and I don't tell the cops about your pot plants.) Sneak into places, like abandoned houses. Find a friend who will let you use his or her place where their parents won't be around. Sneak into the woods. Find a bathroom in an office building you can sneak into.
Your entry: "I know people who aren't allowed to have sleepovers with the opposite sex"
My response: wrong.
Kids have sex. When they get the urge they'll do it. Telling them not to won't work. We're doing abstinence-only sex education in schools so kids aren't learning how to use contraception, and most of the kids realize that adults are hypocrites who had sex at their ages then try to argue they shouldn't. So what we're ending up with is horrible rates of Sexually Transmitted Diseases including HIV among teenagers and teen pregnancy.
5,000 years of history tells us that abstinence-only sex "education" is worthless and does not work, but that is ignored because unlike me, too many parents have their heads in the clouds or buried in the sand and think not talking about it means the issue will go away.
I nearly busted a gut when I heard that the two girls at a high school who won the award for best essay on telling other kids why not to have sex, were both pregnant!
I almost swallowed my tongue when I heard kids young as 11 are having sex.
Well, open minded parents who understand they're titlting at windmills by trying to fight 5,000 years of history will realize that it's far better if your 13, 14, or 15-year-old daughter has sex with her close boyfriend, you make sure they're using contraception and you let them use her bedroom. The kids are having fun, they're not getting exposed to STDs since they're monogamous, you pound it into her head that she must not get pregnant and she won't, and you can keep an eye on them.
When it's a boy around that age his parents are usually less concerned if he has sex because he can't get pregnant.
I discuss this a lot here with boys (and girls) at 12, 13 and 14 to tell them why I don't think it's a good idea for a girl under 15 to have sex, mainly because she's vulnerable and if he's not careful he could injure her.
I don't hide my head in the sand and think kids aren't having sex. They're doing so and if it's controlled, they don't risk pregnancy or disease, and maybe they learn something about relationships with other people.
Okay, for the ones that their parents don't allow it, there are several options. Maybe the girl's parents won't allow it but his will. Or her parents are cool with it when his are uptight. Sometimes the parents don't like it but the kid knows enough to blackmail the parents that they can't object if he or she brings someone home. (You don't stop me from having sex with by boyfriend in my room and I don't tell the cops about your pot plants.) Sneak into places, like abandoned houses. Find a friend who will let you use his or her place where their parents won't be around. Sneak into the woods. Find a bathroom in an office building you can sneak into.
Any good Ideas for presents to soldiers in Iraq?
Meg
So my love is overseas in Iraq, and it's our first deployment. What are good gifts to send that they can't just buy themselves and doesn't have them missing home even more. The only idea I've heard so far is a themed game night package, any other themed ideas?
Answer
I sent a package to my husband like every two weeks when he deployed. I also have an 11 page attachment if you would like it that have different themed care packages that i have put together through hubby's deployments. These theme care packages make it a little more fun to shop for when you have a certain theme in mind. I have used many of them and then you can just talior it to your hubby. Here are some other sites:
http://www.4militaryfamilies.com/articles/carepackages.htm
http://www.militarycarepackageideas.org/
http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art27764.asp
http://www.girlposse.com/talk_talk_talk/themed_care_packages_0605.html
http://www.getromantic.com/gift_guide/gift_ideas/romantic_care_packages.html
http://www.militarywives.com/index.php/component/option,com_content/task,section/id,8/Itemid,55/
http://www.theknot.com/co_profileview.htm?profilename=CarePackageBio&MsdVisit=1
http://www.janellsretreat.com/carepackagethemes.html
http://www.cafepress.com/silentranksshop/2000833
Some things I sent hubby:
-things and snacks that i knew he would like. I also sent him things that his friends liked to because they didn't get much.
-cd's of his favorite music
-lots of cards and letters
-I also sent him a box full of unused cards such as thinking of you, Christmas Cards, Birthday Cards, Miss you cards, etc., that he could send back home to family and friends. It is hard to find cards there.
-I sent him Cake in A Jar
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1096421/how_to_bake_cake_in_a_jar.html?cat=22
-Sent him themed Care Packages (some can be as cute as you want and some can be as adult as you make it). One time I took a picture of our front door closed from the outside. Then a picture of the front door open and a picture of the floor. Then a picture of my shirt on the floor, then a picture of my shoes on the floor, then my socks on the floor, then my pants on the floor, then took a picture of my bra on the floor, then I took a picture of my undies on the floor, then I took a picture of our bedroom, then I took a picture of just the bed. Then put a little note that said wish you were here, miss you in my bed. Something like that. Remember though to take the pictures while making your way to the bedroom with the stuff on the floor so it looks like you are dropping your colthes on the way to the bedroom.
-Another thing you can do: buy a new pillowcase. Every night before you go to bed, take a shower but leave your hair a little damp before getting into bed. After a week, the pillowcase will smell like you. Package this up in a ziploc baggie and send a note with it "Something to remind you of me".
-Write in a journal. I sent this to hubby after every 2-3 months. Of course he still got plently of cards and letters but the journal was more thoughtful and more personal. I would write in it right before I went to bed. I wrote everything down, just like a regular journal. My feelings, what i did, what I ate, something that was funny to me that day, something that made me think of him that day, that I spoke to so and so, what the kids did, etc.,,. I then sent that to him. You know that sometimes we always don't get that long phone call or forget to tell them certain things by the time we do talk to them. Or letters that we don't want to make to long because we don't have the time. Hubby loved this because he said it still made him feel close to me and the kids even though he was gone for a year.
-Send him a photo album. Include pictures of his family, your family (as long as he likes them), kids, you, friends, his favorite car, his favorite boat, his favorite place to eat, his favorite place to visit, etc., I sent something like this to him and included letters from friends and family. I also put together a photo album every 4 months for him of things the girls and I did.
-Does he need anything for his room: storage containers, shelves, blankets, new sheets, pillows, footlockers (you know those rectangle black ones), a clock, picture frames, towels, washclothes, shower curtains (you would be surpised how yucky the ones they are using are), a foldable chair, a small table, paper plates, cups, silverware, a small rug for in front of his bed, etc.,
-Indivdually wrapped goodies and snacks. This way they stay fresher. this also includes the drink mixes that can be added to water.
-slippers, robe
I sent a package to my husband like every two weeks when he deployed. I also have an 11 page attachment if you would like it that have different themed care packages that i have put together through hubby's deployments. These theme care packages make it a little more fun to shop for when you have a certain theme in mind. I have used many of them and then you can just talior it to your hubby. Here are some other sites:
http://www.4militaryfamilies.com/articles/carepackages.htm
http://www.militarycarepackageideas.org/
http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art27764.asp
http://www.girlposse.com/talk_talk_talk/themed_care_packages_0605.html
http://www.getromantic.com/gift_guide/gift_ideas/romantic_care_packages.html
http://www.militarywives.com/index.php/component/option,com_content/task,section/id,8/Itemid,55/
http://www.theknot.com/co_profileview.htm?profilename=CarePackageBio&MsdVisit=1
http://www.janellsretreat.com/carepackagethemes.html
http://www.cafepress.com/silentranksshop/2000833
Some things I sent hubby:
-things and snacks that i knew he would like. I also sent him things that his friends liked to because they didn't get much.
-cd's of his favorite music
-lots of cards and letters
-I also sent him a box full of unused cards such as thinking of you, Christmas Cards, Birthday Cards, Miss you cards, etc., that he could send back home to family and friends. It is hard to find cards there.
-I sent him Cake in A Jar
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1096421/how_to_bake_cake_in_a_jar.html?cat=22
-Sent him themed Care Packages (some can be as cute as you want and some can be as adult as you make it). One time I took a picture of our front door closed from the outside. Then a picture of the front door open and a picture of the floor. Then a picture of my shirt on the floor, then a picture of my shoes on the floor, then my socks on the floor, then my pants on the floor, then took a picture of my bra on the floor, then I took a picture of my undies on the floor, then I took a picture of our bedroom, then I took a picture of just the bed. Then put a little note that said wish you were here, miss you in my bed. Something like that. Remember though to take the pictures while making your way to the bedroom with the stuff on the floor so it looks like you are dropping your colthes on the way to the bedroom.
-Another thing you can do: buy a new pillowcase. Every night before you go to bed, take a shower but leave your hair a little damp before getting into bed. After a week, the pillowcase will smell like you. Package this up in a ziploc baggie and send a note with it "Something to remind you of me".
-Write in a journal. I sent this to hubby after every 2-3 months. Of course he still got plently of cards and letters but the journal was more thoughtful and more personal. I would write in it right before I went to bed. I wrote everything down, just like a regular journal. My feelings, what i did, what I ate, something that was funny to me that day, something that made me think of him that day, that I spoke to so and so, what the kids did, etc.,,. I then sent that to him. You know that sometimes we always don't get that long phone call or forget to tell them certain things by the time we do talk to them. Or letters that we don't want to make to long because we don't have the time. Hubby loved this because he said it still made him feel close to me and the kids even though he was gone for a year.
-Send him a photo album. Include pictures of his family, your family (as long as he likes them), kids, you, friends, his favorite car, his favorite boat, his favorite place to eat, his favorite place to visit, etc., I sent something like this to him and included letters from friends and family. I also put together a photo album every 4 months for him of things the girls and I did.
-Does he need anything for his room: storage containers, shelves, blankets, new sheets, pillows, footlockers (you know those rectangle black ones), a clock, picture frames, towels, washclothes, shower curtains (you would be surpised how yucky the ones they are using are), a foldable chair, a small table, paper plates, cups, silverware, a small rug for in front of his bed, etc.,
-Indivdually wrapped goodies and snacks. This way they stay fresher. this also includes the drink mixes that can be added to water.
-slippers, robe
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