My 13 year old daughter is so attached to me?
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I have a 13 year old daughter she is very attached to me. She now will never let me leave her she wants me to be in the bedroom at night with her, I have to be with her every where. But i am 2 month's pregnant i don't know if that as anything to do with it. What do i do? This is not like her she has never done this before.
Answer
There are times when you give in to what she wants, but there are times when u don't. In this case, u have to tell her that u love her very much, and that will not change, even after u give birth to another baby, but at night, she has to be alone in her bedroom. What is more important to you is not your togetherness with her all the time, but whether u can raise her rightly, whether she will become a True Leader or godly person of the world or not, that she has to love her brother/ sister as much as u love her.
This is the only foundation of ârightâ parenting: teach your children to do things, NOT to satisfy their own ego (self-happiness), but to make others happy (True Happiness). Meaning, teach them to practice True-Love: loving others is more important than loving yourself, not Self-Love: loving yourself is more important than loving others. All the philosophers in the world, including the Atheist ones, plus God and Jesus, believe this: to reach the highest level of happiness, True Happiness, or to reach completeness as a human being, is when u think as little as possible about others, and as much as possible about others, or when u eliminate your selfishness.
When you teach her to be selfish, thatâs when she thinks itâs okay to bully others in school. The kid of my friend started hitting my legs, my back, when I visited him, thatâs because my friend lets him watch Power Ranger, and my friend spoils (gives in to) his kid too much.
1. SPIRIT OF CHARITY:
â¢Get a blanket for mommy. Help the elderly. Set up a table for dinner
â¢NO VIDEO GAMES: Self-Gratification.
â¢Tell kids stories, watch movies together about heroes, saints and leaders: moral bedrock of civilization. Summarize the essence of the stories: compassion, respect, integrity, and wisdom.
â¢Use everyday incidents, family conflicts, to illustrate the importance of having the highest principles
â¢No watching TV with Selfish messages
â¢The importance of greetings, card writing, present making, celebrations, calling them for birthdays
â¢Decorate some wagons/ cardboard boxes with messages/ images on loving the earth. Spend time with them picking up trash.
Volunteer Organizations: Red Cross, Kids Care Club, Teen Against Child Abuse, WillSERVE, volunteer firefighters, Hunger Relief, local library, church, etc.
2. SELF-ESTEEM
â¢Respect for others starts from respect for the individual.
â¢Honor privacy rights.
â¢Regular time is scheduled to accept/ validate each personâs experience/ inner growth/ sense of being. Give them chances to talk about or demonstrate skills, creativeness, special faculties, imagination, and to feel affirmed by their accomplishments/ very existence: sing a song, tell a story, read a poem, tell a joke, etc.
â¢Donât be critical in any way: be PATIENT, just listen, watch, laugh, be creative in supporting in a positive way. Clap enthusiastically.
â¢Be there when your kid performs at school, play baseball, recite their piano lesson/ ballet class, or do whatever they love.
â¢True Parenting is a two-way learning
â¢Encourage them to teach u something from school/ life.
3. EMPATHY
â¢Nurse a sick child/ parent in the family: water to drink, food, enough blankets, company, making a sandwich, cooking soup, etc.
â¢Collect stories of people offering hope and help in times of crisis. Share stories about compassion/ passion of the great teachers: God, Jesus, Buddha, Gandhi, Mother Theresa.
â¢Study those people who devoted their lives for the True Happiness of others: William Wilburforce, Eleanor Roosevelt, etc.
â¢Send them to a relativeâs house to help out.
â¢Serve food in homeless shelters. Write a letter to a legislator. Visit the nursing home/ hospital where your friend/ relative is treated
â¢Read newspapers together. Create a personal interest in the world, in other peopleâs lives, and in learning new things. Summarize the stories.
â¢Meet figures who helped society. How? Watch the movie:âFreedom Writersâ, based on a true story. This story proves that with True Love, you can teach the toughest-to-be-taught children. Bring them to Museums. Every child needs someone they can look up to. Point out qualities of heros, leaders, saints. Go to childrenâs section in bookstores. Pick out books for them.
4. POSITIVE THINKING: movie Finding Neverland
5. RESPECT FOR OTHERS: the movie Amazing Grace proves that, with True Love, not only u can change the worst of people, but also u can change the world.
6. HUMILITY
7. IMPORTANCE OF RELIGION: Read them passages from Illustrated Childrenâs Bible before their bed time. Discuss the stories. Ask their questions, opinions.
8. TRUE LOVE: a perfect way of living, that covers all aspects of life, all the ultimate concepts of:âTrue Happiness, True Leadership, True Marriage, True Parenting, True Purpose of Life, True Friendship, How To Be Romantic, True Relationship, True Faith in God, Kingdom of Heavenâ,
God bless u & all your family.
There are times when you give in to what she wants, but there are times when u don't. In this case, u have to tell her that u love her very much, and that will not change, even after u give birth to another baby, but at night, she has to be alone in her bedroom. What is more important to you is not your togetherness with her all the time, but whether u can raise her rightly, whether she will become a True Leader or godly person of the world or not, that she has to love her brother/ sister as much as u love her.
This is the only foundation of ârightâ parenting: teach your children to do things, NOT to satisfy their own ego (self-happiness), but to make others happy (True Happiness). Meaning, teach them to practice True-Love: loving others is more important than loving yourself, not Self-Love: loving yourself is more important than loving others. All the philosophers in the world, including the Atheist ones, plus God and Jesus, believe this: to reach the highest level of happiness, True Happiness, or to reach completeness as a human being, is when u think as little as possible about others, and as much as possible about others, or when u eliminate your selfishness.
When you teach her to be selfish, thatâs when she thinks itâs okay to bully others in school. The kid of my friend started hitting my legs, my back, when I visited him, thatâs because my friend lets him watch Power Ranger, and my friend spoils (gives in to) his kid too much.
1. SPIRIT OF CHARITY:
â¢Get a blanket for mommy. Help the elderly. Set up a table for dinner
â¢NO VIDEO GAMES: Self-Gratification.
â¢Tell kids stories, watch movies together about heroes, saints and leaders: moral bedrock of civilization. Summarize the essence of the stories: compassion, respect, integrity, and wisdom.
â¢Use everyday incidents, family conflicts, to illustrate the importance of having the highest principles
â¢No watching TV with Selfish messages
â¢The importance of greetings, card writing, present making, celebrations, calling them for birthdays
â¢Decorate some wagons/ cardboard boxes with messages/ images on loving the earth. Spend time with them picking up trash.
Volunteer Organizations: Red Cross, Kids Care Club, Teen Against Child Abuse, WillSERVE, volunteer firefighters, Hunger Relief, local library, church, etc.
2. SELF-ESTEEM
â¢Respect for others starts from respect for the individual.
â¢Honor privacy rights.
â¢Regular time is scheduled to accept/ validate each personâs experience/ inner growth/ sense of being. Give them chances to talk about or demonstrate skills, creativeness, special faculties, imagination, and to feel affirmed by their accomplishments/ very existence: sing a song, tell a story, read a poem, tell a joke, etc.
â¢Donât be critical in any way: be PATIENT, just listen, watch, laugh, be creative in supporting in a positive way. Clap enthusiastically.
â¢Be there when your kid performs at school, play baseball, recite their piano lesson/ ballet class, or do whatever they love.
â¢True Parenting is a two-way learning
â¢Encourage them to teach u something from school/ life.
3. EMPATHY
â¢Nurse a sick child/ parent in the family: water to drink, food, enough blankets, company, making a sandwich, cooking soup, etc.
â¢Collect stories of people offering hope and help in times of crisis. Share stories about compassion/ passion of the great teachers: God, Jesus, Buddha, Gandhi, Mother Theresa.
â¢Study those people who devoted their lives for the True Happiness of others: William Wilburforce, Eleanor Roosevelt, etc.
â¢Send them to a relativeâs house to help out.
â¢Serve food in homeless shelters. Write a letter to a legislator. Visit the nursing home/ hospital where your friend/ relative is treated
â¢Read newspapers together. Create a personal interest in the world, in other peopleâs lives, and in learning new things. Summarize the stories.
â¢Meet figures who helped society. How? Watch the movie:âFreedom Writersâ, based on a true story. This story proves that with True Love, you can teach the toughest-to-be-taught children. Bring them to Museums. Every child needs someone they can look up to. Point out qualities of heros, leaders, saints. Go to childrenâs section in bookstores. Pick out books for them.
4. POSITIVE THINKING: movie Finding Neverland
5. RESPECT FOR OTHERS: the movie Amazing Grace proves that, with True Love, not only u can change the worst of people, but also u can change the world.
6. HUMILITY
7. IMPORTANCE OF RELIGION: Read them passages from Illustrated Childrenâs Bible before their bed time. Discuss the stories. Ask their questions, opinions.
8. TRUE LOVE: a perfect way of living, that covers all aspects of life, all the ultimate concepts of:âTrue Happiness, True Leadership, True Marriage, True Parenting, True Purpose of Life, True Friendship, How To Be Romantic, True Relationship, True Faith in God, Kingdom of Heavenâ,
God bless u & all your family.
What low-cost, low energy things can I do with my kids this summer?
it's just
I'm tight on cash, struggle with depression and have injuries in both feet. So summer camps are out, things that take a lot of energy to plan won't happen and I can't play physically with them until I heal. I want them to still have fun though. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.
They are girls, ages 10 and 5.
Answer
Why don't you put up a tent in the living room! or get the girls to decorate a bedroom as tho it was a tent! i love that idea! im going to do that with my 7 year old daughter. Have lots of pillows, sleeping bags.. you all sleep in there! it's mad! Play games! make some home made pizzas (just use english muffins as the base) Get the girls to put on their Fav. toppings. Tell them stories. I think it's a great way to have fun and not pay much at all!
Why don't you put up a tent in the living room! or get the girls to decorate a bedroom as tho it was a tent! i love that idea! im going to do that with my 7 year old daughter. Have lots of pillows, sleeping bags.. you all sleep in there! it's mad! Play games! make some home made pizzas (just use english muffins as the base) Get the girls to put on their Fav. toppings. Tell them stories. I think it's a great way to have fun and not pay much at all!
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