How to convince your parents to let you redo your room?
Kylie
I have had my room since I was 4 and a half years old. It's a pale green wall with a pale pink ceiling. My bed is pushed against the backwall, jutted out into the room. I have two closets and I want to convert one into a book shelf and put my clothes into a dresser. I also want to get a loft bed, vanity and desk combo that I saw on PB Teen. I have enough money that I raised myself and my mom is totally alright with it. My 14th birthday is coming up and I was hoping I could do a make-over. I have some really unique and cheap ideas that would be fun, but I just need to convince my dad! Any tips?
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I agree with the other poster IF you have major repairs to do, but it doesn't sound like it. You are doing exactly what you should be doing at your age. It's called growing up, claiming your individuality, and finding yourself. Try to tell him how you feel like you are a young woman trapped in the bedroom of a toddler. Just sit down, maturely, and listen to each other's ideas calmly and cooperatively. Maybe pick a few changes, and let the other ones go? Compromise with each other. Make sure he knows you aren't just a "punky" teenaged kid who wants what she wants when she wants it. Good luck!
I agree with the other poster IF you have major repairs to do, but it doesn't sound like it. You are doing exactly what you should be doing at your age. It's called growing up, claiming your individuality, and finding yourself. Try to tell him how you feel like you are a young woman trapped in the bedroom of a toddler. Just sit down, maturely, and listen to each other's ideas calmly and cooperatively. Maybe pick a few changes, and let the other ones go? Compromise with each other. Make sure he knows you aren't just a "punky" teenaged kid who wants what she wants when she wants it. Good luck!
How do i make my life for eventful or excitable?
Q. I'm almost 15. I spend most of my free time sitting around doing nothing or watching porn (Sorry TMI) I'm homeschooled so every day i wake up and sit at my desk for 6 hours then i eat and go to bed. It's the same thing every day and it's getting really old. I don't have any friends what so ever so i can't "hang" out with them or anything. And this weekend i sat in my bedroom, jacked off for a while, ate some food and then proceeded to take a nap. My dad said if i want to make my life for exciting then i'm the only person who can do that, but how? I don't mean to complain i just want some advice... Thanks.
I've tried finding a new hobby such as Playing guitar, working out, and doing some writing and what not but i suck at all those things so i'm at a dead end here.
I've tried finding a new hobby such as Playing guitar, working out, and doing some writing and what not but i suck at all those things so i'm at a dead end here.
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i play guitaer. everybody sucks at playing guitar when they start. it feels so unnatural and yiou wonder how can anybody ever feel scomfortabel holding the left hand in that awkewrd posint o play. but through practice it gets easier and easier. you get sick of it becayuse you feel you are not nmaking nmore improvements and after awhile then yu pick it up again and you make more improvement until you hit the wall again with no improvements and the you set it aside and next week youll be picking it up trying it out again a. and just like this slwosly but surely yuo make improvements. and eventaully you start playing . i would say play a sound and enjoy that sound that you made. just enjoy the little that you acn do. really enjoy it. and you will nohjy learning and discovering things about t, as you knwo tharee is tons of videos on line. to inspire you look up paco de lucia mediteranian sundance. man you will be inspired, or look at the movie with antonio bandera called desperado, and once upon a time in mexico. they will inspire you to play. everybody sucks at anything they start doing. then they slowly progress to get better and better. this is just how it wrks. at first you suck at walking, you were crawling, and then slowly you learned how to walk, and here you are and you can walk and run. but it took you a long time to learn these things. its the same way with life there are tons of stuff you can do. also you can learn how to go about dating girls by looking at advice from girls online to show you and teach you. and then you kind of get an idea of how they think so then you know what the heck is happpening, and what that game is all about. about porn. i definitely recommend the book i will menion to you. the book is just fantastic and a great adition to your homeschooling and life. first let me tell you that it mentions the mind manipulations used in porn. and shows you how your ind works and how to free you r mind from this grabage. i used to be totally into porn then i gradually overcame it because of this book. next the book actually helps you in the question that you are asking also. because it shows you how to live a conscius life. and instead of living by habit.
i want to say something aboutthe envoronment that you spend much of your time. you definitely need a change of enviroement o stimulate you and enjoy life. so part of you r time you need to spend going to the park, and even to the local school. socializing is a big part of education. sure there is not much education happening in schools. but the socialiinzg is really great. honestly most peole feel left out in schools. they either get in trouble or mostly kids feel alienated and feel like they dont fit in with any crowd. this is just te regular phas eof teens , and they arelearning about themselves ad about life. so naturally they do not feel lke they belong to any socal group in schol . some poeple find a few friends. i had two, besides some other people who were like aquianences, and then there was the presence of the girls . totally distracting mentally and emotionally. then there are bullies and some idiots who are smiliar to the bullies who like to pick on people, makng their life quite miserable becayus you cant get away from them since you are in the same school. college is much better. its got the social apsect without the bullying. so its great.
your dad is trying to have you use your brain. your dad made a very smart comment. you should think about it. what can anybody do in life? for example if you go bowling nad have some excitementy tehre, notice that the bowling is becase someone took the initiative and built the place. so any placce that you coul dpossibly go to, to have excietement it is because someione built it. someone had the iodea to make it. so in this life you eaither go along with what fun and excitement is available for yuou by others who made it avauilable or you make it yourslef, and possibly youhave others come to your place of bussiness to have your type of fun. most fun is self generated. you dad is smart. but i agreew ith you , being at home most of the time does not help. so you need to devote some time to being outside. explore different parts of the city. learning t stay away from the trouble spots. and then you will fuind things that will generate interest in you and the exciteemtnt that you are looking for.
to hang around with kids your age and be social you could volunteer to be a tutor. that way you strengthen your communictaion an social skills, and have fun aswell. and not get into ay sort of trouble.
i play guitaer. everybody sucks at playing guitar when they start. it feels so unnatural and yiou wonder how can anybody ever feel scomfortabel holding the left hand in that awkewrd posint o play. but through practice it gets easier and easier. you get sick of it becayuse you feel you are not nmaking nmore improvements and after awhile then yu pick it up again and you make more improvement until you hit the wall again with no improvements and the you set it aside and next week youll be picking it up trying it out again a. and just like this slwosly but surely yuo make improvements. and eventaully you start playing . i would say play a sound and enjoy that sound that you made. just enjoy the little that you acn do. really enjoy it. and you will nohjy learning and discovering things about t, as you knwo tharee is tons of videos on line. to inspire you look up paco de lucia mediteranian sundance. man you will be inspired, or look at the movie with antonio bandera called desperado, and once upon a time in mexico. they will inspire you to play. everybody sucks at anything they start doing. then they slowly progress to get better and better. this is just how it wrks. at first you suck at walking, you were crawling, and then slowly you learned how to walk, and here you are and you can walk and run. but it took you a long time to learn these things. its the same way with life there are tons of stuff you can do. also you can learn how to go about dating girls by looking at advice from girls online to show you and teach you. and then you kind of get an idea of how they think so then you know what the heck is happpening, and what that game is all about. about porn. i definitely recommend the book i will menion to you. the book is just fantastic and a great adition to your homeschooling and life. first let me tell you that it mentions the mind manipulations used in porn. and shows you how your ind works and how to free you r mind from this grabage. i used to be totally into porn then i gradually overcame it because of this book. next the book actually helps you in the question that you are asking also. because it shows you how to live a conscius life. and instead of living by habit.
i want to say something aboutthe envoronment that you spend much of your time. you definitely need a change of enviroement o stimulate you and enjoy life. so part of you r time you need to spend going to the park, and even to the local school. socializing is a big part of education. sure there is not much education happening in schools. but the socialiinzg is really great. honestly most peole feel left out in schools. they either get in trouble or mostly kids feel alienated and feel like they dont fit in with any crowd. this is just te regular phas eof teens , and they arelearning about themselves ad about life. so naturally they do not feel lke they belong to any socal group in schol . some poeple find a few friends. i had two, besides some other people who were like aquianences, and then there was the presence of the girls . totally distracting mentally and emotionally. then there are bullies and some idiots who are smiliar to the bullies who like to pick on people, makng their life quite miserable becayus you cant get away from them since you are in the same school. college is much better. its got the social apsect without the bullying. so its great.
your dad is trying to have you use your brain. your dad made a very smart comment. you should think about it. what can anybody do in life? for example if you go bowling nad have some excitementy tehre, notice that the bowling is becase someone took the initiative and built the place. so any placce that you coul dpossibly go to, to have excietement it is because someione built it. someone had the iodea to make it. so in this life you eaither go along with what fun and excitement is available for yuou by others who made it avauilable or you make it yourslef, and possibly youhave others come to your place of bussiness to have your type of fun. most fun is self generated. you dad is smart. but i agreew ith you , being at home most of the time does not help. so you need to devote some time to being outside. explore different parts of the city. learning t stay away from the trouble spots. and then you will fuind things that will generate interest in you and the exciteemtnt that you are looking for.
to hang around with kids your age and be social you could volunteer to be a tutor. that way you strengthen your communictaion an social skills, and have fun aswell. and not get into ay sort of trouble.
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